MOTHER’S DAY GIFTING INSPIRATION

As Mother’s Day approaches, the search for the perfect gift can often feel overwhelming, but Marks and Spencer is here to simplify the experience with a delightful array of thoughtful presents.

With a focus on quality and creativity, M&S offers everything from luxurious pampering sets and exquisite floral arrangements to delicious gourmet treats that are sure to make any mother/stepmother/grandmother/mother-in-law feel cherished. Whether you’re looking to spoil her with something special or add a personal touch to your gift, Marks and Spencer has curated a selection that celebrates the remarkable women in our lives, ensuring this Mother’s Day on Sunday 30 March is truly unforgettable.

Let’s start with flowers. They are the quintessential gift for Mother’s Day, especially as we kick off Spring! It’s the season when gardens burst into colour after the long, dark winter, welcoming blooms back into our lives. Check out the newly launched, ‘Flower Market’ instore for a dazzling array of colourful arrangements and individual plants – perfect to brighten her day!

As Grace and I left the flower department we wandered through the M&S bakery – however what I was looking for is only available online. It is The Afternoon Tea Gift Box (£35) which has everything needed for a delicious tea for at least 4 people. It contains a fluffy Victoria Sponge, English Breakfast teabags, indulgent Millionaires shortbread and melt-in-the-mouth Viennese Swirls. Trust me, any mum would absolutely adore receiving this sweet surprise delivered right to them!

Whether you’re ready to shower her with something extra special or add a personal touch that says, “I really care,” M&S has curated a fabulous fashion collection that celebrates and flatters the incredible women in our lives. We heard that M&S is the most popular choice for older women looking for well made, fashion forward clothes. We couldn’t agree more – here are just some of the fabulous pieces available, any of which will ensure that this Mother’s Day is nothing short of magical for the lucky recipient!

Other ideas for Mother’s Day comes from the M&S beauty department. Why not treat her to some pampering gifts that they might not buy for themselves. They deserve to be spoiled so indulge her senses with a fabulous beauty or wellness gift set from the M&S beauty department, which is bursting with beloved brands like Cowshed, Neom and Neal’s Yard Remedies.

If you are not sure which products to pick then M&S has made it easy with their thoughtfully curated gift boxes. Check out the ‘Made for an Icon‘ and ‘Time to Unwind‘ – each priced at just £30 and packed to the brim with luxurious goodies that, if purchased individually, would set you back over £100. Whether she needs to wind down after a long day or simply wants to feel glamorous, these wellness boxes are the perfect way to show her just how much she is cherished.

One of our personal favourite brands is Apothecary. You will find their hand wash, candles and room fragrances in both of our houses. You cannot beat them for value for money and every single fragrance whether lavender, geranium and eucalyptus will enhance the atmosphere in whichever room they are used. We particularly recommend the Sleep Pillow Mist (£7.50), Warmth eau de parfum (£12), the Revitalise diffuser (£17) and Restore hand wash and lotion duo £12) but we’re sure any of this hugely popular reange will be welcomed by the lucky recipient.

Finally we headed upstairs to the Homewares department for some more gift inspiration. We did not have to go far as there was a large display of fabulous vases next to the (realistic) faux flowers. Better still, many of them are currently reduced in price, so brilliant bargains, We particularly were taken with the gorgeous little pink striped jug vase online that has a reduced sale price of £11 (down from £19.50); Kelly Hoppen’s Bobble Edge £16 (was £29.50) and the elegant ridged ceramic vase £19 (reduced from £35).

That just leaves us to wrap up our recommendations with a reminder that M&S have an excellent range of cards (and gift cards) – Grace nabbed one for her Mum and we adored this 3D French scene design £7.

Grace is wearing the cotton rich Stormwear Longline mac £85 and the Air-Yarn Striped V Neck jumper £22.50, both of which she chose because they are both so stylish, useful and practical. The mac comes up quite large by the way if you think your Mum would love one of these as a gift.

One last thought, how about an M&S gift voucher – I love being given an E-Gift card as a present as it’s always a treat choosing something for yourself when you’re next instore… from £10.

So, hopefully this has given you some inspiration for Mother’s Day and with a little help from M&S you can make this an unforgettable day for the mother in your life! Happy gifting!

Becoming a Grandmother: my hilarious journey into the unknown

When my youngest daughter and her husband announced that they were expecting, we all erupted in a chorus of joy that could rival a boy band reunion. After all, this was to be our first grandchild, and from what I’ve gathered from friends, becoming a grandmother is like winning the lottery – except instead of cash, you get adorable giggles and the occasional nappy explosion.

Having four children of my own, I strutted around like a parenting expert, convinced I knew everything there was to know about pregnancy, childbirth, and the mysterious ways of newborns. Oh, how naive I was! After a few chats with my daughter, it hit me like a ton of bricks: my experiences were about as relevant to her as a flip phone in the age of smartphones. I was basically taking a steam train to Paris while she was booking a first-class ticket on the Eurostar.

Back in my day, we learned about parenting from our mothers, friends, and the occasional dusty tome that smelled like it had been written in the Stone Age. Now? My daughter is a walking encyclopedia of baby knowledge, thanks to Google, social media, and forums where mothers share tips like they’re trading fashion advice. Nothing is left to chance. If there’s a parenting hack out there, she’s got it in her back pocket, right next to the organic, gluten-free, non-GMO snacks she’ll be feeding our grandchild.

I had to admit to her that, since my last baby was born 30 years ago, my memories were a bit hazy. My only nugget of wisdom? Do what feels right for you and the baby – preferably while ignoring any unsolicited advice from me.

The birthing process has become a whole new ball game. Elected caesareans are as common as ordering a latte at a coffee shop. Back in my day, epidurals were like the new kids on the block, and now they’re practically a rite of passage. Birthing pools are the norm, and fathers are expected to be right there in the trenches, offering emotional support and snacks. My husband, bless his heart, was in the delivery room during my births, but you’d find him sipping tea and munching on toast, blissfully unaware of the miracle (and chaos) unfolding before him. My own father? Well, he thought attending a birth was like watching a documentary – he didn’t lay eyes on me until I was practically a toddler.

And let’s talk about hospital stays. These days, mothers and their precious bundles are in and out of the hospital faster than I can say “nappy duty.” I came home cradled in my mother’s arms while my babies were nestled in their Moses baskets, blissfully unaware of the road ahead. Now, there are car seats that look like they belong on a spaceship. Honestly, I feel like I need to enroll in an engineering degree just to figure out how to strap a baby into one of those contraptions!

Then there’s the whole “skin-to-skin” thing, which is now a sacred rite of passage. My son-in-law wasted no time in shedding his shirt to bond with his newborn son, while we grandparents were summoned via FaceTime to meet our grandson within minutes of his grand entrance. I can’t help but wonder if we should just install a live stream in the delivery room for the whole family – after all, who wouldn’t want to witness that chaos from the comfort of their couch?

And let’s not even dive into the wild world of apps and gadgets that have popped up since I graced this planet with my presence. Seriously, that’s a whole other blog post waiting to happen! But here’s a little teaser for you: did you know there are now nappies with a fancy line that turns blue when your little one has done a wee? No more awkward finger probes to check the situation – thank goodness for small miracles! At this rate, I’m half-expecting a smartphone app to ping mothers with alerts like, “Congratulations! Baby just turned his/her nappy into a Damien Hirst masterpiece!” Who knew parenting would come with its own tech support?

So here I am, preparing for the wild ride of grandparenting – a role that promises endless joy, a few surprises, and possibly a few more grey hairs. Bring on the nappy changes, the sleepless nights, and the unfiltered cuteness of my new grandchild. I have a feeling this is going to be the best adventure yet!

ONE IDEA FOR A FRESH START TO 2025

Just had a marvellous cosy day at home. The weather outside was frightful and so I decided to have a clear out. One way for a fresh start to 2025 is to get rid of everything that is no longer useful in your life – could be clothes, paperwork or a man!! Seriously, am not suggesting you dump your partner, but I do think that clearing out a cupboard or two can be hugely cathartic.

I decided to tackle my study and the mountain of useless paperwork I have collated over the years. After all, almost everything is online now, usually emailed instead of using snail mail. So, ably assisted by my new Amazon paper shredder, it didn’t take that long but now I know exactly where everything I do need is located. Just love the fact that you can order something online in the afternoon and, with Amazon Prime, the package appears on your doorstep the next day.

Anyhow, next week I’m tackling my shoe mountain!

Happy fresh starts…. may 2025 be everything you wish for.

ARIANE POOLE – MAKE UP TRICKS

If you missed a fascinating Instagram Live chat about make up hosted by Ariane Poole don’t worry! You can still pick up some brilliant tips and tricks by watching here

In this Live, Annabel and Ariane talk all things fashion & beauty.

For 20% Off until midnight 17th use Code WHISPER20 at the Ariane Poole checkout.

We used
Touch Up Illuminating Pen:
N2 & N25
Single Eyeshadow: Frozen Grape & Heather
Ultimate Eye Pencil: Mercury & Deep Amethyst
Brown Mascara
Navy Mascara
Crème Blush Sunrise

THE PERFECT PLIMSOLLS

Grace has been wearing these plimsolls for a couple of months now and they are FANTASTIC! Durable, £11.99 and have come out unscathed from a recent machine wash.

Canvas Lace Up Trainers £11.99 when you checkout using HEYAUTUMN on New Look website.

Canvas with stripe trim, rounded toe, wide fitting (so super comfortable), lace up fastening flat sole. Vegan friendly.

STAY PUT EYELINER

You wouldn’t think there’s much difference between one eyeliner and another but this one that I bought from Zoeva Cosmetics is my new favourite. Easy to apply, easy to sharpen, stays put all day, great colours with a bit of shimmer – what’s not to like.

Zoeva Velvet Love eyeliner in Metallic Taupe (their best selling colour) £16. Lots of other brilliant colours available too. Check their website.

New season fashion edit – next level layering

Hi everyone. Here is our new season fashion edit. Get ready to fall in love with the latest Marks & Spencer Autumn collection! We are thrilled to share our top picks with you. This season, M&S has really outdone themselves with pieces that bring a fresh burst of energy to our wardrobes. Read on for all the must-have styles! 

As we enter Autumn our thoughts turn to layering. Why layering? Because it is the most practical way to maximise our wardrobes especially now that our weather is usually mild. A sleeveless knitted top is brilliant for those days were you need a little warmth but not too much. Would also look great worn with a fine long sleeved crew neck sweater.

Green is a standout colour in the new Autumn/Winter collection and this geometric pattern in flowing, breathable viscose was a winner in our eyes.

If you don’t already own a gilet (there are a couple of thoughts on where the word derives from but probably the Spanish jileco or the French noun – le gilet – meaning cardigan) then you are missing a trick. It’s the perfect extra layer when there’s a chill in the air and this one from GoodMove fits the bill perfectly.

Who doesn’t love the luxurious feel of cashmere – these two items of knitwear were definite favourites!

Here are our favourite two jackets – great styling and value for money.

  • Faux Leather Harrington Jacket £59 – buttery soft and feels like the real thing and the detailing belies it’s very reasonable price.
  • Supersoft Crew Neck Jumper £17.50 If you haven’t discovered these already then please check them out. Available in many colours, these are a brilliant basic. Available in sizes 6 – 24.
  • Tweed Tailored Houndstooth Blazer with Wool £79. In a blue mix colourway that you can dress up or wear with jeans, this is a winner. We suggest going up a size.

Grace is still wearing white jeans (clinging on to Summer!) and found this striking striped top – just one of the excellent selection of knitwear and tops that are now available.

This Pure Merino Wool Longline Knitted Vest £39.50 in Bright Green or Black is a versatile layering piece. Worn over trousers or a long skirt, over a crisp white blouse or fine wool jumper, it’s simply stunning. Last but not least, we loved the new range of handbags – especially the fabulous quilted ones.

Happy shopping!

Spacemask – a me time treat

Here’s another little me-time treat you may well like – a Spacemask. My sister gave me a pack and I’ve just spent a very relaxing 20 minutes wearing it.


Just take the mask out of the pack and it automatically starts heating up. Pop it on over your eyes and fit the loops around your ears. The warmth and gentle scent really promotes relaxation.

Available in Jasmine, Rose, Chamomile or Orange/Grapefruit scents.


Box of 5 costs £18.50 from Spacemasks (10% off your first order) or available as single packs on Amazon but more expensive at £7.99 each.

FRESH WATER FOR FLOWERS

Just finished reading “Fresh Water for Flowers” by Valerie Perrin and I was completely captivated by this beautifully written novel. The story follows Violette, a cemetery caretaker who has a unique ability to learn about and care for the dead and their mourners. As she unravels the mysteries of the deceased buried in her cemetery, we are taken on a journey of love, loss, and redemption.

Perrin’s prose is lyrical and poetic, painting vivid images of the French countryside and its inhabitants. The characters are richly developed and their stories intertwine in unexpected ways, keeping me hooked until the very last page.

“Fresh Water for Flowers” is a tender and poignant exploration of grief, forgiveness, and the power of human connection. I highly recommend this book to anyone looking for a heartfelt and thought-provoking read.

Available from Amazon here

GRACE’S MOUTHWATERING PRAWN AND EGG CURRY

Grace’s Prawn and Egg Curry is super quick, super delish. I used totally fabulous Argentinian prawns from Aldi (cost half the price that other supermarkets charge) and a Thai green curry paste pot (M&S £2.50 for pack of four). Serves 2.

Thai green curry paste
Handful Argentinian raw prawns
400ml can coconut milk
Fresh coriander and basil
2 hard boiled eggs
Cucumber
Pack of microwave rice

Warm through coconut cream in a saucepan, then stir in curry paste. Add rest of coconut milk. Pop in prawns and cook on medium heat for a couple of minutes.
Microwave rice and share between two plates Top with quartered boiled eggs and pour over curry/prawn sauce. Top with the fresh herbs and batons of cucumber.