MOTHER’S DAY GIFTING INSPIRATION

As Mother’s Day approaches, the search for the perfect gift can often feel overwhelming, but Marks and Spencer is here to simplify the experience with a delightful array of thoughtful presents.

With a focus on quality and creativity, M&S offers everything from luxurious pampering sets and exquisite floral arrangements to delicious gourmet treats that are sure to make any mother/stepmother/grandmother/mother-in-law feel cherished. Whether you’re looking to spoil her with something special or add a personal touch to your gift, Marks and Spencer has curated a selection that celebrates the remarkable women in our lives, ensuring this Mother’s Day on Sunday 30 March is truly unforgettable.

Let’s start with flowers. They are the quintessential gift for Mother’s Day, especially as we kick off Spring! It’s the season when gardens burst into colour after the long, dark winter, welcoming blooms back into our lives. Check out the newly launched, ‘Flower Market’ instore for a dazzling array of colourful arrangements and individual plants – perfect to brighten her day!

As Grace and I left the flower department we wandered through the M&S bakery – however what I was looking for is only available online. It is The Afternoon Tea Gift Box (£35) which has everything needed for a delicious tea for at least 4 people. It contains a fluffy Victoria Sponge, English Breakfast teabags, indulgent Millionaires shortbread and melt-in-the-mouth Viennese Swirls. Trust me, any mum would absolutely adore receiving this sweet surprise delivered right to them!

Whether you’re ready to shower her with something extra special or add a personal touch that says, “I really care,” M&S has curated a fabulous fashion collection that celebrates and flatters the incredible women in our lives. We heard that M&S is the most popular choice for older women looking for well made, fashion forward clothes. We couldn’t agree more – here are just some of the fabulous pieces available, any of which will ensure that this Mother’s Day is nothing short of magical for the lucky recipient!

Other ideas for Mother’s Day comes from the M&S beauty department. Why not treat her to some pampering gifts that they might not buy for themselves. They deserve to be spoiled so indulge her senses with a fabulous beauty or wellness gift set from the M&S beauty department, which is bursting with beloved brands like Cowshed, Neom and Neal’s Yard Remedies.

If you are not sure which products to pick then M&S has made it easy with their thoughtfully curated gift boxes. Check out the ‘Made for an Icon‘ and ‘Time to Unwind‘ – each priced at just £30 and packed to the brim with luxurious goodies that, if purchased individually, would set you back over £100. Whether she needs to wind down after a long day or simply wants to feel glamorous, these wellness boxes are the perfect way to show her just how much she is cherished.

One of our personal favourite brands is Apothecary. You will find their hand wash, candles and room fragrances in both of our houses. You cannot beat them for value for money and every single fragrance whether lavender, geranium and eucalyptus will enhance the atmosphere in whichever room they are used. We particularly recommend the Sleep Pillow Mist (£7.50), Warmth eau de parfum (£12), the Revitalise diffuser (£17) and Restore hand wash and lotion duo £12) but we’re sure any of this hugely popular reange will be welcomed by the lucky recipient.

Finally we headed upstairs to the Homewares department for some more gift inspiration. We did not have to go far as there was a large display of fabulous vases next to the (realistic) faux flowers. Better still, many of them are currently reduced in price, so brilliant bargains, We particularly were taken with the gorgeous little pink striped jug vase online that has a reduced sale price of £11 (down from £19.50); Kelly Hoppen’s Bobble Edge £16 (was £29.50) and the elegant ridged ceramic vase £19 (reduced from £35).

That just leaves us to wrap up our recommendations with a reminder that M&S have an excellent range of cards (and gift cards) – Grace nabbed one for her Mum and we adored this 3D French scene design £7.

Grace is wearing the cotton rich Stormwear Longline mac £85 and the Air-Yarn Striped V Neck jumper £22.50, both of which she chose because they are both so stylish, useful and practical. The mac comes up quite large by the way if you think your Mum would love one of these as a gift.

One last thought, how about an M&S gift voucher – I love being given an E-Gift card as a present as it’s always a treat choosing something for yourself when you’re next instore… from £10.

So, hopefully this has given you some inspiration for Mother’s Day and with a little help from M&S you can make this an unforgettable day for the mother in your life! Happy gifting!

THE COVENANT OF WATER – BOOK REVIEW

I loved Abraham Verghese’s book, ‘Cutting for Stone’ so when someone recommended his latest novel, ‘The Covenant of Water’, I knew I was going to be enthralled again. 

Abraham Verghese’s ‘The Covenant of Water’ is a monumental work (700+ pages) that weaves together themes of love, loss, and the intricate tapestry of human connections against the backdrop of Kerala, India. This sweeping novel spans several decades, immersing readers in the lives of the members of a family grappling with the weight of tradition and the pull of modernity.

From the very first pages, Verghese’s lyrical prose captivates and transports readers to the lush landscapes of Kerala, where the water is not just a setting but a vital character in its own right. The narrative flows like the rivers it describes, winding through time and generations, revealing the complexities of familial bonds and the indelible marks left by history.

At its core, ‘The Covenant of Water’ delves into the concept of inheritance – not just of physical traits, but of emotional legacies, cultural expectations, and the burdens of choice. The characters are richly drawn, each embodying the struggles and triumphs that come with navigating their identities within a deeply rooted society. Verghese masterfully balances the personal with the universal, exploring how individual lives intersect with larger social and historical currents.

The novel’s exploration of the theme of water is profound. It serves as a metaphor for life itself – fluid, unpredictable, and at times tumultuous. Verghese uses water to symbolise both the nurturing aspects of existence and the destructive forces that can arise from it. This duality is reflected in the characters’ journeys, as they confront their destinies while grappling with the inevitability of change.

Moreover, Verghese’s attention to detail is remarkable. His background as a physician shines through in his vivid descriptions of the human body and the medical practices of the time, grounding the narrative in a sense of realism that enhances the emotional weight of the story. The intricate interplay between personal health and familial duty adds another layer of complexity to the characters’ lives, making their struggles feel intimate and relatable.

‘The Covenant of Water’ is not just a novel, it’s an experience. It invites readers to reflect on their own legacies and the waters that shape their identities. Verghese’s storytelling is both poignant and powerful, leaving an indelible mark long after the last page is turned. This is a book that will resonate with anyone who has ever grappled with the ties that bind us to our past while forging a path toward the future.

In conclusion, ‘The Covenant of Water’ is a stunning achievement that showcases Verghese’s extraordinary talent as a storyteller. It is a profound meditation on the human experience, rendered with beauty and compassion. Highly recommended for anyone seeking a rich, immersive reading experience that celebrates the complexities of life and the enduring power of love and family.

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THINNING HAIR?

If, like me, you have very fine, thinning hair, read on! I’ve discovered that almost all of my 50+ post menopausal friends are complaining of the same thing. So I thought I’d try and find out ways to combat this seemingly common problem.

My first thought was shampoo and conditioner. I’d heard about Plantur 39 which is specially formulated for menopausal hair thinning. Phyto caffeine stimulates hair growth. I am finding it very pleasant to use – no strong fragrance, no drying out or flattening of my hair and not too expensive. I have to wash my hair almost every day because it’s all over the place when I wake up each morning, so I like the nourishing ingredients in this product. The addition of zinc and niacin boosts hair fullness and improves nutrient flow, making this an ideal choice for those struggling with menopausal hair changes.

You can try both shampoo and conditioner for under £20 at Tesco or at Amazon.

I am also going to try Cornish Seaweed shampoo about which there is a buzz of excitement. With 60% organic seaweed and herbs, their Super Nutrient Shampoo is designed to improve hair strength, elasticity and shine, help balance hair oils, stimulate healthy hair growth, prevent hair loss and soothe the scalp.Will report back on that once I’ve tried it.

Tip: After you’ve washed your hair, let it dry naturally until only slightly damp, then get going with your hairdryer on medium (not full blast) heat. There are heat protectants on the market that you can use but I haven’t tried one yet so can’t recommend one in particular.

I have also been using Color Wow XL Bombshell Volumiser. You pump some foam into your palms and run it through your hair. Am pleased to report that it is weightless and non-sticky. £11 at Amazon. I haven’t found it gives me a huge amount of extra volume like promoted on Instagram but my hair does feel somewhat fuller when I use it.

Another thing I do to add volume to my hair is use sticky rollers once I’ve dried my hair. I pop them in while I’m doing my make up, then remove them and give my hair a spray with good old Elnett Extra Strong Hold.

Last but not least my lovely hairdresser, Emma at Lustig & Webb, blunt cuts the base but makes sure the upper section is graduated and layered. I have my hair cut as short as I dare which gets rid of the dryer ends and gives it more body. Blonde highlights have been my thing since I was a teenager and I always find my hair feels fuller after I’ve had some put in.

Have you got any tips to share with the Our Weekly Whisper readers? Please do leave them in the Comment section below this post if you do. Thank you.

NEW GRANDSON (AND A WRINKLE FIX!)

Annabel is over the moon because she has a grandson! This is her first time as a granny and she couldn’t be more delighted. So huge congratulations on the arrival of Kittow (Cornish for Christopher).

Although she’s now busy helping her daughter, she did have time to mention one product she’s recently discovered. Not sure about you, but I’ve been inundated with Il Makiage ads on Instagram for some months now and I must admit my interest has been piqued but I’ve never actually bought anything as yet. So I was on the phone to Annabel in an instant to find out what she thought about the product she had been given by a friend – Power Redo Wrinkle Fix.

It’s an anti-ageing blur and smooth wrinkle filler. “It really does work. Brilliant for a special occasion.”

Anyhow, if you’d like to find out more about Power Redo Wrinkle Fix you can check it out here.

This is not an ad or paid promotion.

ONE IDEA FOR A FRESH START TO 2025

Just had a marvellous cosy day at home. The weather outside was frightful and so I decided to have a clear out. One way for a fresh start to 2025 is to get rid of everything that is no longer useful in your life – could be clothes, paperwork or a man!! Seriously, am not suggesting you dump your partner, but I do think that clearing out a cupboard or two can be hugely cathartic.

I decided to tackle my study and the mountain of useless paperwork I have collated over the years. After all, almost everything is online now, usually emailed instead of using snail mail. So, ably assisted by my new Amazon paper shredder, it didn’t take that long but now I know exactly where everything I do need is located. Just love the fact that you can order something online in the afternoon and, with Amazon Prime, the package appears on your doorstep the next day.

Anyhow, next week I’m tackling my shoe mountain!

Happy fresh starts…. may 2025 be everything you wish for.

STAY PUT EYELINER

You wouldn’t think there’s much difference between one eyeliner and another but this one that I bought from Zoeva Cosmetics is my new favourite. Easy to apply, easy to sharpen, stays put all day, great colours with a bit of shimmer – what’s not to like.

Zoeva Velvet Love eyeliner in Metallic Taupe (their best selling colour) £16. Lots of other brilliant colours available too. Check their website.

Spacemask – a me time treat

Here’s another little me-time treat you may well like – a Spacemask. My sister gave me a pack and I’ve just spent a very relaxing 20 minutes wearing it.


Just take the mask out of the pack and it automatically starts heating up. Pop it on over your eyes and fit the loops around your ears. The warmth and gentle scent really promotes relaxation.

Available in Jasmine, Rose, Chamomile or Orange/Grapefruit scents.


Box of 5 costs £18.50 from Spacemasks (10% off your first order) or available as single packs on Amazon but more expensive at £7.99 each.

FRESH WATER FOR FLOWERS

Just finished reading “Fresh Water for Flowers” by Valerie Perrin and I was completely captivated by this beautifully written novel. The story follows Violette, a cemetery caretaker who has a unique ability to learn about and care for the dead and their mourners. As she unravels the mysteries of the deceased buried in her cemetery, we are taken on a journey of love, loss, and redemption.

Perrin’s prose is lyrical and poetic, painting vivid images of the French countryside and its inhabitants. The characters are richly developed and their stories intertwine in unexpected ways, keeping me hooked until the very last page.

“Fresh Water for Flowers” is a tender and poignant exploration of grief, forgiveness, and the power of human connection. I highly recommend this book to anyone looking for a heartfelt and thought-provoking read.

Available from Amazon here

THE UGLIEST SHOES? WE’RE KEEN ON THEM!

Despite the Times and Telegraph fashion departments declaring Keen shoes as the ugliest ever, they have become the most sought after footwear for a reason (or two).

First and foremost, the comfort level of these shoes is unmatched. The wide toe box allows for plenty of room for your toes to move and breathe, while the cushioned footbed provides excellent support for all-day wear. You can walk for hours in these shoes without any discomfort.

Additionally, the durability of Keen shoes is outstanding. The rugged outsole grips well on various surfaces, making them perfect for holidays.

In terms of style, we find the unique design of Keen shoes to be quite charming. They have a quirky and fun look that sets them apart from other Summer footwear options.

Overall, we highly recommend Keen summer shoes to anyone looking for a comfortable and versatile option for their outdoor activities. Don’t let the critics deter you!

Check them out here

This is not a paid ad. We genuinely think these shoes are brilliant.

APPLE CIDER VINEGAR – YES OR NO?

Why do some people swear by regularly taking apple cider vinegar? You may have come across praise for it on social media, so is it hype or actually something you should consider taking?

Biona Apple Cider Vinegar with the Mother £3

Apart from making a great salad dressing, limited studies show it may help lower blood sugar levels, reduce bloating, aid weight loss, soothe skin blemishes, help digestion and even boost your immune system.

Apple cider vinegar comes in two types – it’s recommended that you choose one with the ‘mother’ (where the good bacteria has not been filtered out).

Apple cider vinegar is quite acidic and should not be consumed undiluted on a regular basis. Obviously if you have allergies to either pectin or apples, avoid apple cider vinegar. However, for most of us, it’s perfectly safe to drink apple cider vinegar on a daily basis. Speak to your GP if you have specific dietary requirements, are taking medication, have allergies, or any other concerns before taking ACV regularly.

For an invigorating tonic, mix 1-2 tablespoons of cider vinegar with honey in a glass of water and enjoy. 

You never know, it may also be good for your waistline…

More about apple cider vinegar can be read here